tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-799415365728597234.post8586051301714086947..comments2023-10-16T15:02:14.851+01:00Comments on Elise: I've decidedElisehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03358565055136510269noreply@blogger.comBlogger33125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-799415365728597234.post-80772700311242744272008-02-11T07:08:00.000+00:002008-02-11T07:08:00.000+00:00Elise, sometimes a cool and calm person could lost...Elise, sometimes a cool and calm person could lost its cool with things he or she feels passionate about. You are a lucky woman and treasure this lovely person doing everything he can for you.<BR/><BR/>Sometimes punishment needs to be there serving its purpose. Not everyone is sensible and respectful.roentarehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11935487193733829245noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-799415365728597234.post-30966003066487158932008-02-11T03:57:00.000+00:002008-02-11T03:57:00.000+00:00ohmigod elise! I just caught up on your posts - th...ohmigod elise! I just caught up on your posts - that is CRAZY! Thank GOD the security guard was around when Bradley attacked you. I don't know how you were able to write about it - it's so traumatising! Anyway, I'm so glad you're ok, and that solicitor is taking care of you and of things. <BR/><BR/>Just one more thing - you are NOT to blame, this isn't wholly, or partly, or even just a little bit your fault! How were you meant to know that Bradley would actually come and attack you?? (Btw - smart move on dropping the keys!!) <BR/><BR/>Chin up lady, I'm so glad you're ok!! Hopefully Bradley gets what he deserves. <BR/><BR/>xoxoShopgirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03843194378331410885noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-799415365728597234.post-39915134979665777562008-02-10T13:16:00.000+00:002008-02-10T13:16:00.000+00:00Elise,You are not even 0.000000001% in any way WRO...Elise,<BR/><BR/>You are not even 0.000000001% in any way WRONG!<BR/>You have everyone's support here.<BR/>Take Care and don't think too much.Astro Galaxyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16962366780066794169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-799415365728597234.post-68699533722376457432008-02-10T06:53:00.000+00:002008-02-10T06:53:00.000+00:00I think you will sleep better knowing he is in jai...I think you will sleep better knowing he is in jail and not lurking about. Press charges.A Girl, A Boy, and Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15952377787888335102noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-799415365728597234.post-64928616448717316762008-02-09T19:32:00.000+00:002008-02-09T19:32:00.000+00:00~~Keep yourself safe, and find happiness where you...~~Keep yourself safe, and find happiness where you can.<BR/><BR/>~~You're bound to find the right man.<BR/><BR/>~~all the best, Elise.<BR/><BR/>x,Will<BR/>Ps: kisses* for Valentines!:)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-799415365728597234.post-23536064963471435652008-02-09T18:38:00.000+00:002008-02-09T18:38:00.000+00:00I hear what your saying Miss M and I know its not ...<EM>I hear what your saying Miss M and I know its not entirely my fault but I must have done something wrong. People don't attack without reason. No matter how small the reason is, there still must be one.</EM><BR/><BR/>No, sweetie! You did nothing wrong! People don't attack without reason - his reason is he's a controlling loon throwing a temper tantrum of the worst kind.<BR/><BR/>Not. Your. Fault.Chickiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15953892579800213358noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-799415365728597234.post-16761492971273354962008-02-09T13:08:00.000+00:002008-02-09T13:08:00.000+00:00Elise, forgive me because I'm a stranger (I came o...Elise, forgive me because I'm a stranger (I came over here from Malach's blog), but I have to echo what everyone else is saying. This is in no way your fault. B is a predator. Even if you look back on your behavior and think that you did certain things, no normal man is going to react in a predatory, violent way, no matter how angry and hurt he feels. This was not your fault at all.here today, gone tomorrowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17203537337770906267noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-799415365728597234.post-38396919504953452302008-02-09T08:20:00.000+00:002008-02-09T08:20:00.000+00:00Elise, it is not your fault, it is irrelevant if h...Elise, it is not your fault, it is irrelevant if he may or may not do this again the fact that he did this to you means that he MUST be punished. I admire your bravery for putting this down but please hun do not let him get away with this please...Shemleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13496192585320985959noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-799415365728597234.post-76071889279108343212008-02-09T04:33:00.000+00:002008-02-09T04:33:00.000+00:00PJ Harvey. Very Nice, Malach. Very nice.PJ Harvey. Very Nice, Malach. Very nice.Verdant Earlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03139591223231428391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-799415365728597234.post-78272655938414847322008-02-09T00:29:00.000+00:002008-02-09T00:29:00.000+00:00I don't want to minimize this situation, but this ...I don't want to minimize this situation, but this has been running through my head all day thinking about this:<BR/><BR/>He got lucky, got lucky one time<BR/>Hitting with the girl in room five none nine<BR/>She turned her back on him facing the frame<BR/>Said, "Listen Joe don't you come here again"<BR/><BR/>White sun scattered all over the sea<BR/>He could think of nothing but her name Elise<BR/>God is the sweat running down his back<BR/>The water soaked her blonde hair black<BR/><BR/>It's a perfect day<BR/>A perfect day, Elise<BR/><BR/>He got burned by the sun<BR/>He's a lucky man<BR/>His face so pale and his hands so worn<BR/>And the sky<BR/>Let himself in room five none nine<BR/>As she turned away<BR/>Said a prayer, pulled the trigger and cried<BR/>Tell me why<BR/><BR/>It's a perfect day<BR/>A perfect day, Elise<BR/><BR/>Ah oh, It's a perfect day<BR/>A perfect day, EliseMalach the Mercilesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16243258141258465269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-799415365728597234.post-61374980036223223812008-02-09T00:14:00.001+00:002008-02-09T00:14:00.001+00:00PS - I hope you are doing okay. This sucks!PS - I hope you are doing okay. This sucks!Verdant Earlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03139591223231428391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-799415365728597234.post-75564100041163479052008-02-09T00:14:00.000+00:002008-02-09T00:14:00.000+00:00Solicitor showed restraint by merely kicking him i...Solicitor showed restraint by merely kicking him in the nuts. I'm not so sure I would have been as calm.<BR/><BR/>Everything you've written about Bradley can be summed up with two words: bad guy.<BR/><BR/>He's a bad guy and he needs to go to jail. If not for what he did to you, then what he will do to other women in the future. Note that I didn't say "might do". He will do this again, and next time there probably won't be a security guard to stop him.<BR/><BR/>You've done nothing wrong up to this point. Rape is not something shared by two people. <I>He</I> raped or tried to rape <I>you</I>. You did nothing to encourage it. There is nothing that can be done to encourage rape in a rational mind. His is not. Jail time and therapy are the answers.<BR/><BR/>You've done nothing wrong up to this point.<BR/><BR/>Letting him off easy would be your first mistake.Verdant Earlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03139591223231428391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-799415365728597234.post-75637748137624419092008-02-08T23:30:00.000+00:002008-02-08T23:30:00.000+00:00P.S. Don't lose sleep over him. He's not worth it....P.S. <BR/><BR/>Don't lose sleep over him. He's not worth it.<BR/><BR/>XOXOXOXO,<BR/>Cocaine PrincessCocaine Princesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10512654768220278663noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-799415365728597234.post-75331849456017353972008-02-08T23:17:00.000+00:002008-02-08T23:17:00.000+00:00Sweet Elise,Since I have been reading your posts I...Sweet Elise,<BR/>Since I have been reading your posts I feel you are such a strong, independant woman. Don't let Bradely or any other person ever take that away from you. Go to the police please!!<BR/>XOXOXOXO,<BR/>Cocaine PrincessCocaine Princesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10512654768220278663noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-799415365728597234.post-71412791509800358812008-02-08T23:04:00.000+00:002008-02-08T23:04:00.000+00:00This all sounds like a movie script. If it isn't,...This all sounds like a movie script. If it isn't, then you lead a much more exciting life than most.Bruce Johnsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10898228670873232050noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-799415365728597234.post-8464472140077420142008-02-08T20:13:00.000+00:002008-02-08T20:13:00.000+00:001. you have no blame in this, and not insult you,...1. you have no blame in this, and not insult you, you might want counseling yourself<BR/>2. Bradley needs to be punished for this, that is UNACCEPTABLE behavior for anyone, and in line of work, I find once people cross a certain legal line, namely: pedophilia, mruder, and rape (which is what he was attempting to do) there is no turning back from that.Malach the Mercilesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16243258141258465269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-799415365728597234.post-33085244311324446452008-02-08T19:40:00.000+00:002008-02-08T19:40:00.000+00:00I used to think I was to blame for being treated a...I used to think I was to blame for being treated abominably too. I wasn't, and neither are you. Look after yourself. xKittyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16259837826944310404noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-799415365728597234.post-12639361106464800312008-02-08T17:57:00.000+00:002008-02-08T17:57:00.000+00:00Don't go alone when you go the police station. Ta...Don't go alone when you go the police station. Take someone with you, just in case. Bradley may be nursing a grudge and you don't want to be caught offguard again.<BR/>KatKat Mortensenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16877694888419628533noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-799415365728597234.post-64939958832818836822008-02-08T16:57:00.000+00:002008-02-08T16:57:00.000+00:00Not sexual attack. That is for power, to get "one ...Not sexual attack. That is for power, to get "one over you" and to basically prove their dominancy over you.<BR/><BR/>He might be punshing you for refusing to see him again, for not answering his calls or for not wanting to be with anymore. But any of those things are not worth what he did to you and you have full right not to want to do any of those things.<BR/><BR/>You could not ever have done anything that would warrent him trying to rape you or putting that much fear in you.<BR/><BR/>His stalking was affecting your life, you were scared, you were thinking of him constantly. That is what he wanted, think of that power he now has over you.<BR/><BR/>Elise you did NOTHING wrong what so ever.The Divine Miss Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03630878406116431585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-799415365728597234.post-83696304761664236022008-02-08T16:32:00.000+00:002008-02-08T16:32:00.000+00:00I hear what your saying Miss M and I know its not ...I hear what your saying Miss M and I know its not entirely my fault but I must have done something wrong. People don't attack without reason. No matter how small the reason is, there still must be one.Elisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03358565055136510269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-799415365728597234.post-89913222273167618622008-02-08T16:29:00.000+00:002008-02-08T16:29:00.000+00:00Elise honey you're having the guilt that most rape...Elise honey you're having the guilt that most rape victims have, they tend to believe that they are somehow at fault and could have done something to avoid it.<BR/><BR/>Truth is that you did nothing wrong, there is nothing that you could have ever done that would warrent being attack in such a truly horrific way. <BR/><BR/>Please do not feel guilt what so ever. No matter what part of the story you haven't told us no person ever has the right to force themselves on another - regardless of previous actions.<BR/><BR/>Please go speak to someone about this because if you are feeling guilt you really need someone to tell you that it isn't your fault and never ever ever ever ever could be your fault!The Divine Miss Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03630878406116431585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-799415365728597234.post-83395505910816176822008-02-08T16:09:00.000+00:002008-02-08T16:09:00.000+00:00EliseSomething else...if that security guard wasn'...Elise<BR/>Something else...if that security guard wasn't there...you'd be in a lot worse shape here. Bradly's intentions were to harm you much worse than he did. If he had it his way, he would have hurt you really really bad. He needs some jail time to repent and think about his actions.Michelle Hixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03183208546874192076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-799415365728597234.post-62862191805936988002008-02-08T15:53:00.000+00:002008-02-08T15:53:00.000+00:00Elise, im sorry but i am in agreement with Miss M ...Elise, im sorry but i am in agreement with Miss M here. You are comming to the wrong conclusion here by not getting this guy off the streets.Slydehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02170343849186268727noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-799415365728597234.post-76123061143967354582008-02-08T15:51:00.000+00:002008-02-08T15:51:00.000+00:00I am going to police about this. It probably will ...I am going to police about this. It probably will go on record. I just don't want him to go to jail for what he did. <BR/> <BR/>It sounds crazy and I know I'm not fully to blame on this but I think I should take some of the responsibility. <BR/><BR/>Its hard to understand but I have a horrible feeling of guilt in the pit of my stomach. It won't go away. I keep thinking about all the things I should have done to prevent it.Elisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03358565055136510269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-799415365728597234.post-40529404172438808822008-02-08T15:47:00.000+00:002008-02-08T15:47:00.000+00:00From multiple psychological angles, a very interes...From multiple psychological angles, a very interesting post. Almost a triangle of the human psyche with the solicitor, bradley and you--each unique, each connected to the other in both the physical and the emotional. Filing a report is a good thing. As always, captivating prose. Have a peaceful if not passionate weekend Elise. :-)Tréehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11742129819547567342noreply@blogger.com